In other kinds of relationships
- As a couple
- Weekends are often takeout on the couch and an old movie, relaxed and rarely tense. When friction does come up, it’s usually money. Pick one day a month to go over the accounts together: the Pig explains the big purchases, the Rat doesn’t chase the small change, and you both breathe easier.
- As family or friends
- As siblings, the Pig is often the older one who gives up everything, while the younger Rat is sharp and good at asking for more. When parents hand things out, they can let the Pig choose first now and then. As friends, you’re comfortable even when neither of you has anything to say.
- As coworkers or partners
- In the same department you get along easily: the Rat plans and reports up, the Pig coordinates coworkers and gets things finished. Where it snags is promotions. The Rat, eager to climb, often prepares quietly, and when the Pig finds out last, it leaves a sore spot. If you’re thinking about a transfer or a new job, tell the Pig first; the Pig will most likely be glad to help.
What you may have read
The usual line is that Rat and Pig get along beautifully, almost always because both are water and their personalities are alike. One article even claims this pair keeps things fresh for good.
How we read itBoth being water is true, and it does make life together easy. But Zi and Hai form no special bond, harmonious or otherwise; you get along because you’re alike, not because of some particular match. Being alike brings ease, while freshness doesn’t show up on its own. You both love your comfort zone, so now and then take turns bringing the other somewhere you love that they’ve never been, and you’ll have something new to talk about.
Birth years
- Rat years
- 1936, 1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008, 2020
- Pig years
- 1947, 1959, 1971, 1983, 1995, 2007, 2019, 2031
A Pig is 11 years younger or 1 year older than a Rat (add or subtract 12 years and you get the same two signs). For example, a Rat born in 1984 pairs with a Pig born in 1995 or 1983.
The zodiac year starts at Li Chun, around February 3–5. If you were born in January or early February, your sign may belong to the year before; a free Bazi chart shows your exact year branch.