Use both directional roles to examine daily rhythm, repair after conflict, shared responsibility, and the conditions required for long-term stability.
A pair result has four factual layers: both birth mansions, one shared relationship family, two directional roles, and an optional symbolic distance band. Those facts are calculated before any narrative is generated.
Marriage: What to Read First
Use both directional roles to examine daily rhythm, repair after conflict, shared responsibility, and the conditions required for long-term stability.
- How do we return to cooperation after a recurring conflict?
- Where does support become dependency, avoidance, or unequal labor?
- Which long-term decisions need an explicit owner and review date?
Turn the Marriage Pattern Into Observable Actions
Use the traditional roles to choose concrete experiments. Do not use them to diagnose either person or claim access to private feelings.
- Write a repair protocol for one recurring disagreement.
- Name how money, care, household work, and major decisions are divided.
- Compare the symbolic pattern with observed safety, respect, and follow-through.
What the Engine Actually Calculates
OpenFate converts both recorded dates under the same disclosed, frozen JST old-calendar convention, derives two birth mansions in a fixed 27-mansion order, and looks up the family, A → B role, B → A role, and applicable distance. AI does not choose or revise those facts.
The six families are 命 (Life), 業胎 (Karma–Gestation), 榮親 (Prosperity–Affinity), 友衰 (Friendship–Decline), 安壞 (Stability–Disruption), and 危成 (Risk–Achievement). They are categories rather than a best-to-worst ranking.
A Relationship Lens, Not a Decision Maker
Shukuyo can help name questions about support, friction, power, boundaries, and repair. It cannot determine whether someone is trustworthy, whether a relationship is safe, or what either person will do next.