In other kinds of relationships
- As a couple
- Once you settle down, life feels secure: the Dog keeps the routines and promises, the Rat takes care of finances and future plans. A worried Dog imagines the worst, and the Rat’s habit of brushing it off with “It’s fine” only makes it worse. If the Dog is anxious, walking through the backup plan helps more than ten rounds of reassurance.
- As family or friends
- As siblings, a Rat and a Dog are often just two years apart, usually with the Dog as the older one who has looked out for the Rat since they were small. The Rat makes friends fast and the Dog warms up slowly, so parents shouldn’t compare how popular they are. When Dog parents see a Rat child bargaining and bending the rules as cleverness rather than sneakiness, the child is more willing to be honest.
- As coworkers or partners
- As business partners you complement each other: the Dog keeps your word good and looks after longtime clients, the Rat finds new business and keeps costs down. Most fights start when the Rat wants to loosen terms to win a deal and the Dog feels it lets loyal clients down. Agree on hard limits for discounts and payment terms. Within them the Rat negotiates freely; anything beyond, the Dog turns down, so the Rat never has to play the bad guy.
What you may have read
What people say about Rat and Dog contradicts itself. Some lists name the Dog as a poor spouse for the Rat and say you’re better as friends; others call you a very happy couple.
How we read itNeither view mentions the Hidden harmony between Zi and Xu: the main stems hidden inside them, Gui and Wu, pair up. Hidden harmony doesn’t show on the surface. Outsiders see a rule-keeper and a rule-bender and think you don’t fit, yet the two of you often share a connection that’s hard to explain. Don’t rush back to “just friends.” A connection like that lasts when it’s said out loud, so now and then tell each other, “You really got me this time.”
Birth years
- Rat years
- 1936, 1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008, 2020
- Dog years
- 1946, 1958, 1970, 1982, 1994, 2006, 2018, 2030
A Dog is 10 years younger or 2 years older than a Rat (add or subtract 12 years and you get the same two signs). For example, a Rat born in 1984 pairs with a Dog born in 1994 or 1982.
The zodiac year starts at Li Chun, around February 3–5. If you were born in January or early February, your sign may belong to the year before; a free Bazi chart shows your exact year branch.