In other kinds of relationships
- As a couple
- Early on, the Monkey’s sense of novelty thrills the Goat, and the Goat’s gentleness puts the Monkey at ease. Over time it can slide into the Monkey busy out in the world and the Goat waiting at home. The most damaging thing in a fight is the Monkey saying in anger, “Then let’s just forget it,” which the Goat will take to heart for a long time. Agree that no matter how angry you get, the relationship itself is never used as a threat. In the heat of the moment, the Monkey says only, “I’m furious right now. Give me a minute,” and the Goat knows the Monkey isn’t going anywhere.
- As family or friends
- As friends you’re a lively pair: the Monkey decides where to go, the Goat remembers the jackets and the medicine, and a trip isn’t right without both. As siblings, the Monkey is often the first to venture out and try things, and the Goat is the one at home putting in a good word with the parents. If the Monkey also mentions the Goat’s help in front of the parents, the Goat won’t feel taken for granted.
- As coworkers or partners
- A small business together suits you well: the Monkey finds leads and negotiates terms, the Goat handles the parts that take patience and an eye for beauty. Growth is where it jams: the Monkey wants to open three new lines at once while the Goat hasn’t got one running smoothly yet. Launch one new product at a time and add another only after a steady season. The Monkey proposes expansion, and the Goat decides whether quality is up to standard.
What you may have read
Plenty of compatibility charts rate Goat and Monkey low and even say the pair forms a sha, a kind of jinx, that has to be offset by being born in particular months. Japanese articles see it the other way: the Monkey brings the fun, the Goat brings support, and the two complement each other.
How we read itA sha appears nowhere in the traditional rules of harmony, clash, punishment, harm, or break, and Wei and Shen have none of those anyway, so there’s nothing for birth months to offset. The low ratings mostly come from lifestyle habits: very different routines and standards of tidiness. Deal with the one thing you argue about most, like agreeing that after eleven at night only a small lamp stays on. That’s far more practical than worrying about a jinx.
Birth years
- Goat years
- 1943, 1955, 1967, 1979, 1991, 2003, 2015, 2027
- Monkey years
- 1944, 1956, 1968, 1980, 1992, 2004, 2016, 2028
A Monkey is 1 year younger or 11 years older than a Goat (add or subtract 12 years and you get the same two signs). For example, a Goat born in 1991 pairs with a Monkey born in 1992 or 1980.
The zodiac year starts at Li Chun, around February 3–5. If you were born in January or early February, your sign may belong to the year before; a free Bazi chart shows your exact year branch.